Pt.2 of A Single Girl's Life
Mr. Sensitive was sitting next to me on his couch and trying to make his move and when he did, it was like an excited dog licking all over its owners face! Yuck, can you really slow down I had to say. I mean what woman wants to have an aggressive tongue in her mouth spinning like a washing machine! Is it just me or do we prefer the soft and gentle approach. After trying to make him follow my league of his 44 years of experience it was cool. But I still felt uneasy. Mr. Sensitive noticed and asked again "What is the problem"? I told him I was a bit nervous and it had been awhile since I actually kissed a different man and I was trying to get back in the groove but the setting was throwing me off. He then moved to his other couch and became mute. "Do you want me to leave"? I heard the voices in my head that were saying "Yes, just leave his house"! He didn't look at me he just said "No". Still confused by his words since his actions were clear that he was pissed, he finally uttered a line. "So what are you looking for"? "Am I like your puppet to help you get over your ex, I don't understand"?Were we really having this conversation I thought, on a freaking first date!So with that said I had to break it down to him. Here is what I said."I'm looking to meet new people, I am very attracted to you, I feel a bit nervous since this is my first time back on the dating scene, being in your apartment right now is a bit weird since I don't even know you and I don't expect anything to go down because I feel shy and nervous". After saying all of that I said the worst sentence that just came out so naturally like I have said numerous times "It's not you it's me"! Oh boy did that turn into a direct look of "No she didn't"!
This whole dialogue went on for about an hour and the night finally came to a close of planning a second date at a restaurant and seeing if there would be any chemistry at that point. I was cool with that. Mr. Sensitive was a good guy he was looking for a relationship and he had the status that no woman would pass up. To bad my mental state couldn't see it because as I drove back home a guy that I met at Starbucks had sent me a cute message on my phone. "Miranda hope you had a great night, I was wonder when I get back from vacation if you wanted to meet up. Give me a call".
This guy I will call Mr. Traveler was 34, extremely good looking, funny and full of energy. I liked his approach and confidence he was the type of guy you knew you could have fun with.As I smiled about his message and the excitement of a potential date I smelled a sexy scent all over me. Mr. Sensitive's cologne was blazing on my neck and shirt.Confused again by the fact that I actually loved the scent and began to have good thoughts on Mr. Sensitive and our next date but also Mr. Traveler.
This twist would be interesting and I was ready for the ride!
Check back for Pt.3 of A Single Girl's Life!
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